The world is a large and scary place, and when we have a child, this fact can only become emphasized to us. Every single worthwhile parent wishes for their child to be as protected as possible, often willing to sacrifice their health, finances and time to achieve this as best they can.
However, while you may be perfectly protecting them as well as you can from the obvious threats, sometimes the hidden threats both within and outside of your household can suggest this is a difficult job. It’s a sad thing to accept, but necessary to know, because it can keep us even sharper. Learning to be a parent is one of the hardest tasks you will ever face, and so it’s important to use that challenge to refine your talents wisely. This means informing yourself as much as possible, despite no one being able to effectively write a 100% cohesive manual for everything you have to take care of.
However, with our advice, we believe you can effectively become that parental force you hope to be, while also eschewing some of the issues you may otherwise ignore:
Baby Products
Sometimes, baby products are too strong for the sensitivity of your child. Even more worryingly, fake baby products can be filled with chemicals or incorrect safety measures that do not warrant their discounted cost. As a parent who cares, it’s important to only purchase legitimate and tested products, as well as staying informed as to the sensitivities your child might have (such as respiratory or skin sensitivities). Speaking to your pediatrician can help you on both fronts here.
Pets
Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for pets to harm infants and children, out of not being fully aware of how to be careful around a child or through immediate malice and bad training. It’s important that you train your dog, and no matter how tame to be watchful over them when near your child. Additionally, only bring tame breeds into your home, and watch how they interact. Closing the door to their room at night can also prevent cats from jumping into the cot and harming your child, something that can harm their ability to breathe well. We think of pets as part of the family, and they are, but being ultra-sure that they behave correctly around our children is also worth the time investment.
School Issues
Just because you are a great parent does not mean others will be. At school, bullying, mistreatment, harassment and many others can cause children to become victimized, and sometimes, teachers are less than aware of what is going on. This is why it’s important to take note of your child, to understand what they might be going through by speaking to them, and observing their behavior. Make your home a safe space and allow them the chance to openly communicate carefully and respectfully. School issues can sometimes come from any corner, so it’s best to be on guard and never just assume things are okay.
With this advice, you’re sure to care for the hidden threats that could harm your child.